What You Should NOT Do After You Get Engaged
The days after a proposal can seem like a daze. Is this real life? Are you really getting married?! It’s truly an exhilarating time!
All of the excitement can sometimes cause you to make some rash decisions. And while there are many guides about what you SHOULD do after you get engaged, here is one with a list of what you should NOT do after getting engaged!
DON’T Wear a Ring that Doesn’t Fit
First things first — if your engagement ring doesn’t fit properly, get it sized. Wearing a ring that is too small is uncomfortable and possibly dangerous. And wearing a ring that is too big can cause you to lose it (what a tragedy that would be)!
If your ring is from Koser, we can often have it sized while you wait so that you aren’t without it. Stop in as soon as you can and we’ll take care of you!
DON’T Stress About Planning
Another thing you shouldn’t do right after getting engaged is stress about wedding planning. Even if you plan on a short engagement, you still have plenty of time to plan (and stress) about the details later. If you’re excited to begin planning right away, start with some of the basics, such as when you’ll get married, and what kind of location you would enjoy. The details will work themselves out later.
DON’T Post Too Quickly
How you choose to announce your engagement is completely up to you, but think twice before posting quickly. If you announce your engagement on social media before telling your closest family and friends, you may deal with some hurt feelings. Plus, it’s super fun to share your good news in person!
DON’T Make Any Promises
As soon as you announce your engagement, you may be tempted to make promises about you can attend, who your bridal party will consist of, or when you’ll tie the knot. Don’t make hasty promises that you’ll later regret. Take some time to think through what you really want for the big day, and be sure to consult your new fiance. If anyone asks specific questions, you can give vague answers such as, “We’re planning for a smaller wedding, maybe next summer.” That kind of answer leaves plenty of room for changes-of-mind, which will inevitably happen over the next few weeks.
DON’T Forget to Celebrate!
Lastly, don’t get so caught up in immediate wedding planning that you forget what an exciting time this is! The days following your engagement should be joy-filled and focused on celebrating your new commitment. Whether you plan an engagement party or choose to focus on just the two of you, take the time to soak it all in!
DO Stop in Soon to Koser Jewelers!
If you’re recently engaged (or considering popping the question), stop in soon to see us at Koser Jewelers! We would be honored to be part of your love story and help you with all of your jewelry-related needs!
