Common Proposal Mistakes
Are you planning on proposing soon? As you think through your plan, you might be nervous and wonder what could go wrong. Have no fear, you can learn from those who have gone before you! Here are some of the most common marriage proposal mistakes you should avoid.
Ignoring Her Wishes
Let’s say that your loved one has suspected that a proposal is forthcoming and has dropped some hints around what she would love as part of the special moment. Whether her hints were about the ring or the location of your proposal, you should do your best to honor those wishes. Even if these ideas don’t seem like a big deal to you, they probably are important to her. After all, many women dream about their proposals for their entire lives. And while you can’t be expected to get every detail right, you should do your best to honor her wishes.
Telling Everyone You Know
Another common proposal mistake is telling everyone you know. You might be beaming with excitement about the upcoming engagement but save some of it for later, so your fiancée-to-be can share in the fun. Don’t be afraid to tell some friends and family before the proposal (especially if you need their help pulling off the perfect moment) -- just be selective. By keeping this inner circle small, you also decrease the likelihood that anyone will spill the beans.
Not Waiting for the Perfect Moment
Once you’ve purchased the ring, you might feel eager to propose before your nerves get the best of you. However, it’s best to wait until you’ve thought about the moment you want to create. You don’t need to overthink this, but don’t propose on a whim either. Consider this -- your proposal is a major milestone in your relationship and will become one of your most significant memories together. Your children and grandchildren will someday ask about it. Don’t let the moment be an afterthought. Rather, give it the time and consideration it deserves.
Asking Without a Ring
You knew this one would be here, right? Asking without a ring is one of the biggest proposal mistakes you can make. You may assume we’re biased, but a recent survey of 19,000 couples (completed by TheKnot.com) found that the number one engagement “faux pas” was “proposing with no ring.” Of course, your commitment to each other is about more than jewelry, but it’s what the engagement symbolizes that matters. Engagement rings are an integral part of our culture. They symbolize your love and commitment to a shared future and your willingness to make sacrifices to make that future great. Start your life together right by asking for her hand with a ring in yours.
Stop into Koser Jewelers
At Koser Jewelers, we have had the honor of being part of thousands of love stories. If you’re thinking about proposing soon and don’t know where to start, we would love to help. Our goal is to become your jeweler for a lifetime, not just sell you an engagement ring. As you begin this new chapter, you can have peace of mind knowing that we are always here to help you with any of your jewelry needs -- from purchasing your wedding bands to cleaning and maintaining your engagement ring. Stop into Koser Jewelers soon and allow us to help you speak without words.
