A Couple’s Guide to Engagement Ring Shopping

If you searched for “engagement ring shopping etiquette,” you’d likely find a list of traditional “rules.” But here’s the truth: engagement ring shopping has evolved. The expectations couples followed in the past don’t always apply today. Here are a few tips to help guide your experience and make it feel true to you.

You Can Shop for the Engagement Ring Together

Shopping for an engagement ring together used to be considered a faux pas, but today it’s incredibly common. In fact, many couples find it helpful to browse side-by-side. It gives you both a chance to explore styles in person, try on different settings, and get a better feel for what you actually love on your hand — not just in photos.

It also ensures that your partner knows exactly what you like, which can help avoid any second guessing or returns later. 

The Proposal Doesn’t Have to Be a Total Surprise

If you or your partner have always dreamed of a surprise proposal, go for it! But don’t feel pressured by tradition. Many modern couples choose to have open conversations about getting engaged before it actually happens.

In fact, we often see couples shop for the ring together and still plan a surprise proposal afterward. That way, you get to be part of the decision without sacrificing the magic of the moment.

Spend What You’re Comfortable With

There’s no hard rule for how much you should spend on an engagement ring. Whether you’re working with a tight budget or ready to splurge, the most important thing is finding a ring that feels right for both of you.

Forget the outdated “two-month’s salary” advice. Only you know your financial situation and what you’re comfortable spending. When you find the right ring — the one that makes you both excited — that’s what really matters.

Koser Jewelers Is Here to Help

At Koser Jewelers, we make engagement ring shopping stress-free, personal, and even fun. Whether you're browsing together or planning a surprise, our jewelry experts will guide you through the process with honesty and care.

Visit us in-store or call 717-653-4941 to get started — we’d love to help you find the perfect ring for your forever.