Beginner's Guide to Buying an Engagement Ring: Tips, Styles, and Budgeting

Your Ultimate Beginner's Guide to Buying an Engagement Ring in Lancaster, PA
Are you at that point in your relationship where you’re starting to think about the next steps? Maybe you’re considering proposing soon, but have no idea where to start when it comes to engagement ring shopping.
YOU HAVE COME TO THE RIGHT PLACE!
As you begin the process, you may feel overwhelmed by information about diamond quality, ring styles, metal types, and more. Rest assured — you do not need to become an expert on engagement rings to buy one (unless that’s your thing — in that case, go for it)!
At Koser Jewelers, we love helping you find the perfect ring. We’re the experts on jewelry — but you’re the expert on her. Together, we’ll make sure you get it right.
That said, having a general idea of what your future bride would love is incredibly helpful. Here are some simple ways to get started.
Start the Shopping Process Together
One of the best ways to understand what she loves is to start the engagement ring shopping process together. While this was once unheard of, today it’s more common than not. Bringing her into the store gives her the chance to try rings on (maybe for the first time) and start narrowing down styles.
Shopping together doesn’t mean you have to buy together — but that’s completely okay, too.
Check Pinterest
If you’re feeling totally clueless, start by checking her Pinterest account. There’s a good chance she has a board dedicated to rings she loves.
Just to be clear — many Pinterest rings are unrealistic and cost millions of dollars. But even so, you’ll get a great sense of her style, shapes, and settings. It’s a great first step.
Ask Family and Friends
If Pinterest doesn’t give you answers, ask her family or close friends. They often have great insight into what she’d love. Here are a few questions you could ask:
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Has she ever mentioned a type of ring she likes?
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What do you think would be most important to her in an engagement ring?
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Is there a diamond shape she loves?
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Would she prefer a solitaire (a single diamond) or a ring with accent diamonds?
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Does she lean more traditional or unique?
If you’re planning a surprise proposal, just be sure to ask people who can keep a secret.
Listen Carefully!
If you’ve talked about marriage before, there’s a good chance she’s dropped hints about the type of engagement ring she wants. Pay attention to comments she makes about friends’ rings or styles she admires. Those little clues go a long way when it’s time to choose.
Consider Her Style
Think about her overall style. Is she trendy or timeless? Bold or minimal? Does she love sparkle, or does she prefer something simple and classic? If you’re unsure, one of her close friends can often help point you in the right direction.
Understanding her style helps us guide you to an engagement ring that truly fits her.
Stop in Soon to Koser Jewelers!
No matter where you are in your engagement ring journey — whether you’ve just started thinking about proposing or you’ve been researching for months — we’re here to help.
We’d be honored to guide you through this exciting season and be a part of your love story.



